Pola Asuh Grandparenting dalam Proses Sosialisasi Nilai Norma pada Anak Korban Perceraian (di Desa Perkebunan Sei Bejangkar Kecamatan Sei Balai Kabupaten Batu

Abstract

This study aims to explain in-depth facts about how parenting is applied grandparenting and find out how the process of socializing the norm values of children who are in grandparenting care in Sei Bejangkar Plantation Village, Sei Balai District, Batu Bara Regency. Qualitative methods with a case study approach were used in this study. The data collection techniques used in this study were observation, interviews, and documentation. The determination of informants in this study used purposive sampling techniques by interviewing 15 informants, namely 10 key informants, 3 main informants, and 2 additional informants. The interpretation of data in this study uses the concept of Baumrind parenting and also the concept of socialization of norm values to see how parenting and the process of socializing norm values in children. The results showed that grandparenting parenting provides three forms of parenting and actions carried out by grandparenting, as well as reasons for grandparenting in acting authoritarian, democratic, and permissive to children. The factor of grandparenting acting authoritarian because the age of children around 6-12 years who have entered elementary school, makes grandparents have to be extra and provide firm rules in matters of children's education, religious education, and also homework that must be done and accepted by the child, then authoritarian culture and experience that is always inherent during grandparenting live. The stages of socialization and the process of socializing norm values carried out by grandparenting in Sei Bejangkar Plantation Village run properly, through advice or direction, then through the role of teachers in schools and also tutors. Finally, we can know that divorce is not the end of everything, the transfer of parental roles to grandparenting does not cause any dysfunction in the family structure in the parenting process, in fact grandparenting is able to take on the role of parents and contribute by providing parenting and, socializing the norm values to their grandchildren.